Today I am Frustrated!

It seems that every day I clean up the kitchen and every day it is messy again. I swear that I go to bed with a fairly clean kitchen and wake up to a disaster. Maybe late at night I am so tired that the kitchen seems cleaner than it is or is it that my children wake up and create the mess before I manage to get to it? Either way I am frustrated. Lila is now tall enough and into the phase of grabbing things off the counter, table, you name it she can reach it but she cannot see it and so it could be any thing, today I lost my temper with her. She first grabbed a plate with a piece of chocolate cake on it and had chocolate icing every where, then she grabbed a stack of kids dishes that I was trying to load into the dishwasher and bits and pieces of last nights dinner went all over my floor. She dumps her breakfast, lunch and dinner all onto her and the floor every day. Jackson had cereal and milk all over the table, Walker, well today he has been fine, but most days it is not the case.
I long for a clean house....I know that this comes with the territory of being a stay at home mom and having my kids home during the day and not in day care, but I am frustrated. I love being a mom, I just hate the mess that comes with it. I should look at it positively, as in having messes means that I have children in my home to make messes and most days this is how I feel but today I am struggling with that thought. I love my children more than any thing on this earth and one day I am sure that these messes will be missed......... well maybe, but today I am frustrated.